This blog represents some of my secret desires/fantasies that I have had after an event that happened to me about 6 months ago. I've been married for 17 years and throughout that time have been faithful to my wife. My wife up until 6 months ago had also been faithful. This changed when a buddy of mine came over for dinner and beer one night. I knew my wife had flirted with him a few times and i also knew he had flirted with her. I never suspected what would happen that night though. What happened, although initially it came as a complete surprise I found turned me on so much that i started to search out what the whole 'hotwife' lifestyle meant. I do use the term 'Hotwife' and not cuckold here, as I am in no way submissive or in fact get off on being humiliated. I do however find it strangely erotic to imagine myself either watching my wife with another man or joining her in a threesome with another man.